A Kink in the Cure

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Personal essays and anonymous stories from the community.

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I Am Affected

I've been referencing Franklin Veaux’s material and supporting his work for over a decade. I've met him several times and enjoyed his workshops and readings. Over a decade ago my partner, Aicila, shar

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Initial Thoughts: Why This Project Exists

In the interest of practicing what I preach, I have been encouraged to cast off the shroud of secrecy and share some of the thoughts in my brain with you. So, for those who are new to my ramblings and

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Learning to Talk About Boundaries: What Changed When I Found the Words

For most of my twenties I believed I was good at boundaries because I was good at enduring. I could absorb discomfort without complaint, accommodate almost anyone, and call it flexibility. What I coul

Educational content for adults (18+): consent, safety and wellbeing. Nothing here replaces professional advice.